Posted 3/5/2016 12:26 AM (GMT 0)
Hello Mattamx,
Just want to greet you and reach out with a handshake greeting to you, from across the miles. We're in the same general age range and you would have been a few years ahead of me in high school, just as a reference point, to get acquainted.
It sounds like your case has a few complexities, Mattamx. From your post, I can tell you've got some "fighting spirit" within you --- and you want to get the best treatment plan going for your future. From your post, I can tell you're at the proverbial "fork in the road" ... as far as some treatment decisions. The questions ... the complexities ... the uncertainties ... the considerations ...
I'm reaching out with a message because I think the title of your post says it all, and right now --- YOU are the most important person in your situation --- your post title contained the word "QUESTIONING" --- that's significant --- you've got some questions on your mind --- and your question is the most important question of all right now ...
I was diagnosed with an advanced case and have been pursuing treatments ever since --- fortunately, I've had some meaningful success along the way with my treatments --- so I'm keeping up with a full-time career, friends, family, exercise, hobbies, volunteer work, and social events. I formed a medical team comprised of my urologist and medical oncologist ... but realizing that my case has some complexities, and realizing that I want to get farther down the road of life, I finally made the decision to get a second opinion by taking my case to the next level ---
Here are some words that my local doctors shared with me --- because I INCLUDED them in my decision to seek a second opinion and sought their blessing in my decision ... they said to me, "A GOOD doctor will ALWAYS recommend that you seek a second opinion." Those were powerful words --- I won't ever forget them --- and I felt that those sage words of advice were worthy enough to share with you today.
I've got a set of friends here who now share in my same medical diagnosis --- they are my "Battle Brothers" --- but most importantly, they are my FRIENDS. One by one, each one of us has traveled to seek a second opinion from a larger medical facility, with specialists who focus specifically on advanced prostate cancer. Each one of us has returned from seeking that "second opinion" with a greater sense of confidence --- in some cases, confirmation of the current course of treatments --- in some instances, new ways of looking at the treatment course and new options and possibilities being offered. In ALL cases --- the specialists who consulted with me and also with my friends formed a BOND with our local medical teams, to consult and coordinate the treatments and medical care TOGETHER.
That's been a very POWERFUL event in my treatment plan, as well as for my friends here, engaged in the same battle. A second opinion can add an extra layer of expertise --- another viewpoint --- another idea on treatment possibilities --- and perhaps confirmation of your current course of treatments, which would be very affirming in your case, I feel. There are OUTSTANDING medical centers in every corner of this great country of ours --- experts in the field of prostate cancer. I want the best medical treatment and advice for every friend of mine --- and every member of this forum.
A second opinion can offer some PEACE OF MIND ... I know it did in my case, and my friends have spoken of the same feeling after they sought out a second opinion ... I've heard them say, "I now sleep better at night, knowing that I sought a second opinion. I now know I am doing everything I can think of to preserve and maintain my health."
These are just some thoughts to share with you, Mattamx --- when I saw the word "QUESTIONING" in your post title, it leads me to think that you might want to consider the possibility of a second opinion. I got to the point where I felt I needed to "Go BIG, Or Go HOME" --- and to make sure I was doing everything in my power to maintain my health. Seeking a second opinion --- "No Harm, No Foul" --- just my thoughts, anyway.
Sure want to wish you the best, Mattamx --- stay connected with us here --- you've found a supportive "Band Of Brothers" right here --- and we're here to support you.
Handshake of friendship from across the miles,
"Cyclone Fan" From Iowa State University