Posted 3/8/2017 9:19 PM (GMT 0)
Welcome to the group. Sorry that you are here but you could not ask for a better group of people.
There is good news and not so good news. It is advanced (bad news). But there is good news. First, it is not in the bones (very good news). Second, while it has to be treated, it does not have to be treated today. I was G 8 where it spread to my pelvic lymph nodes. In my case, they caught it early enough to have surgery. (Note, many people would not agree with surgery. I had to argue with the surgeon who thought surgery would not be the beneficial.) This was followed by two years of hormonal therapy (Lupron), which I am 9months into and 38 rounds of external radiation to my pelvic area.
In your fathers case, it may be to advanced for surgery. Please note, many men do better not having surgery. Quite often the cancer is spread during the surgery, and the side effects are not fun. It seems like hormonal therapy and some sort of radiation treatment(s) is in order.
Knowing the PSA will also be of help. First there are some rare forms that do not raise your PSA. Second, it can act as a benchmark.
Please know that with treatment there is a very strong chance that you dad will live a very long time.