It depends on his goal. If he wants to cure the disease, he should go for SRT. If he wants to manage the disease, he can go for HT. At age 63, I would think he is more interested in cure, but if he has significant comorbidities and an expected lifespan of ten years or less, he might do fine with just managing it.
There is seldom an exact target for SRT. Even when they can find a tumor big enough to see on a PET scan, they still irradiate the
entire prostate bed. They have to treat what they can't see as well as what they can see. I was just told that the minimum detectable tumor size on our best PSMA PET/MRI is about
90,000 cancer cells. But what about
all the masses of fewer cells? The purpose of the PET scan is
not to find tumors in the pelvic area - that would all be irradiated anyway - it is to find tumors outside of the pelvic area. If tumors are found outside, then irradiating the pelvic tumors is futile. So the PET scan is done to rule SRT out, rather than to rule it in. With your father's low PSA, there's a good chance that his cancer is still in the pelvis and therefore curable.
If you want to calculate the odds that SRT will cure him, you can use this nomogram:
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2016/08/probability-of-remaining-recurrence.htmlAs for his urinary difficulties, you are right that the SRT is likely to make matters worse. If the leakage is severe, he might want to have an artificial urinary sphincter installed. Put "AMS 800" in the search bar to read about
patient experience with it.