LeonardR-
You are way too early into this to make up your mind about
anything. Do yourself a favor and decide
not to decide. That stance will will make you more receptive to information. Every time you make a decision, even a provisional one, you set yourself up for confirmation bias. Give yourself 3 months, meet with specialists, and then decide.
Along the way you will collect all kinds of misinformation (as you have already gotten) as well as good information (as you have already gotten). Trust specialists only for their own specialty - they really are mostly clueless about
other specialties (although that won't stop them from expressing a strong opinion).
First, I agree with your surgeon friend that an MRI is really not very good at staging - only a 57% chance that it will be correct - not much better than a coin flip. Clinical stage should be based on the DRE only. If he felt "some irregularities in the digital exam," and it was small and on one side only, it is stage T2a (not T1c). The way to get an educated guess as to whether it's contained is the MSK nomogram:
/www.mskcc.org/nomograms/prostate/pre_opThis is not just my opinion, here's a study that found it is statistically true that MRI does not add to staging accuracy:
www.goldjournal.net/article/S0090-4295(17)31247-5/fulltextOk - now you know the statistical odds that surgery will be curative. I would guess the odds are about
50%. This
is where your surgeon friend was totally mistaken. On to radiation...
For your unfavorable intermediate risk prostate cancer, brachy boost therapy has the best odds of curing your cancer - about
92%-94% probability:
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/05/brachy-boost-therapy-should-be-reserved.htmlFortunately, Michael Zelefsky at MSK is a master at this therapy. SBRT or HDR brachy
monotherapy also have great odds of a cure for intermediate risk men but with possibly lesser side effects. MSK offers SBRT, but you'll have to look elsewhere for HDR brachy monotherapy. Protons have no better cure rates or side effects than IMRT, and a proton boost does not have the evidence of effectiveness that brachy boost has.
On to your questions...
1) From what I've presented, do you think that RP is the way to go?Only you can decide that for yourself, and only after you've educated yourself. In about
3 months, ask yourself the following questions:
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/12/questions-to-ask-yourself-in-deciding.html2) Are there important questions I should ask the MD's that are less obvious?(Yes, I've reviewed the "long-running threads.")For instance: "My friend told me that the penis is shortened as a result of RP; Is that the case?"At the end of the sticky for the newly diagnosed, which you may have missed, are exactly those sort of questions. Here they are again for your convenience for your first two meetings with specialists (adapt as applicable for your situation):
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/12/questions-to-ask-and-not-ask-on-first.html Note the questions NOT to ask.
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/12/questions-to-ask-on-first-visit-for.html/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/12/questions-to-ask-low-dose-rate-seeds.html/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/12/questions-to-ask-sbrt-doctor.html/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/12/questions-to-ask-high-dose-rate.html3) Viagra (sildenafil citrate) vs. Cialis? Do you guys have any recommendations?One is cheap, the other expensive. Are the results the same? How long do you need to take it?Viagra is going to be sold over the counter and should get even cheaper. John Mulhall at MSK is THE world expert on penile rehab - just do whatever he says.
4) Other considerations, recommendations?Yes- Job 1 is your psyche, which took a tremendous hit from this diagnosis. Give yourself time to get over the initial shock - your emotional temperature is way too high to make a good decision on anything this important right now. I found that psychotherapy, Mindfulness classes, and prostate cancer support groups got me into a better frame of mind for making decisions. if I haven't overloaded you yet, read this too:
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/10/how-anticipating-regret-and-quick.html