Balingtwine, Your case (a low risk G6 PC becoming an "intermediate risk" G7 PC) has historically been one of the more difficult to decide the treatment. This is because intermediate risk patients have anywhere from 2-70% chance of recurrence after treatment, a very wide range, regardless whether you choose surgery or radiation.
In 2012 at Memorial Sloan Kettering (MSK), researchers decided to try to separate the "favorable" vs "unfavorable" intermediate risk patients. The idea was not whether to treat but the intensity of the treatment. I know you are trying to decide whether to treat, but the MSK analysis is still relevant as you will see below. The simplest definition of unfavorable intermediate risk is if you have more than one intermediate risk factor.
From what you have written, you have two intermediate risk factors. You have PSA > 10 and Gleason 7. This puts you into unfavorable intermediate risk already and even if you treat now, statistically you already have a higher chance of recurrence. To me, regardless of what the entry/exit criteria are for AS, you are already unfavorable intermediate risk and not treating now could shorten what is currently an excellent - 99% - chance of not dying from PC in the next 15 years.
Which brings me to the next point. It's not clear what your worry is when you say you haven't seen anybody without problems post treatment. If you are talking about
side effects, then yes. However, if you are talking about
cure (as defined for example by no recurrence in 15 years), then no, if you treat now, you have an excellent chance of cure. I, for one, am willing to trade a few side effects for better assurance of a longer life. Do realize that if you read this forum a lot, you are reading posts from many who have had more problems with side effects than normal. Most, whether radiation or surgery, simply don't post anymore because they are don't have side effects that bother them enough to post.
I think you are reducing future options if you plan to postpone treatment. While prostate cancer can be slow growing, yours - with Gleason 4 - is potentially no longer slow growing. As an unfavorable intermediate risk, you should carefully weigh you decision to wait in consultation with your doctor.
If there is anyone you should listen to here in this case, its ASadvocate. He has been a big proponent of active surveillance, is very knowledgeable about
it, and as he just said if he were you, he would treat.
Here is a link to an article I think you might find useful
www.cancernetwork.com/oncology-journal/favorable-vs-unfavorable-intermediate-risk-prostate-cancer-review-new-classification-system-and-its