Posted 1/26/2018 10:37 PM (GMT 0)
welcome to HW.
Enlarged prostate (BPH) is top of my list. A visit to the URO is in order. You'll get a DRE (digital rectal exam) and possibly some other tests. Infection is also a possibility.
Since you're posting on a PC site I'll say this: PSA is not a test for cancer. It simply indicates prostate activity and size. PC generally has no symptoms in the early stages or at the PSA you mention.
BPH, prostatitis, are much more likely in your case. Generally you don't consider PC until you've ruled out all other causes.
What you have is a really good reason to see a URO and get some more testing. There are meds for the BPH and the lack of emptying.
So, get the appointment, get checked out, and even if the worst is true, there are plenty of treatments available so this will just be a bump in the road of life. 30 years from now you'll be telling stories about this.
Andrew