1. Dave....again, take a deep breath, research a lot, and relax. You have time!
2. Dennis....welcome to the club. We can always use more data, experience and opinions. BUT, please note we already have an 'official' Prostate Cancer Coach, who has almost 10,000 posts.
3. There are few, if any, issues around here discussing the most intimate 'below the belt' problems, and if there's a 'wall of silence' on THIS forum, at ANY age, I haven't seen it.
There's a heck of a lot of experience on this forum, so hang around. We all can learn from each other!