I just couldn’t get past the idea people say things to comfort to people who have cancer to make them feel better because...I figured...”of course they’ll say comforting things to me since I’ve got cancer....whose gonna tell me I’m gonna die even if it’s the truth?” “They wouldn’t tell me that even if they thought it to be the case! You don’t have to be a doctor to know cancer can kill you!”
You need to order that book....pratoman recommended about
the prostate snatchers John. Everytime I’d get scared (which was ALOT)....I’d read it....it’s a great book for some perspective.
Tell that doctors office to send those biopsy slide to Dr. Epstein for a second opinion. Then...tell him you’ll get back with him. Educate yourself. Another book that helps with perspective is Patrick Walsh’s ....”Guide to Surviving Prostate Cancer). (See...”there’s that SURVIVE again....as opposed to what?”)
I think your doctor scared you. (Along with the diagnosis). Here’s a calculator so you can plug your numbers in yourself.....
/www.mskcc.org/nomograms/prostate/pre_opI took a year to decide. Others take 6months to decide. This doesn’t have to be treated yesterday. These guys are telling you the truth and offering some solid....advice.
Good luck
(By the way...you’re T1C for the calculator.....unless a doctor told you your prostate feels abnormal...which doesn’t generally happen with G6 “cancer”