Cateydid-
I know rising PSA is scary and the urge to hit back is strong. As others have said, second-line ADT is likely one of the options your doc will consider when the PSA number becomes "actionable", and some people get very long runs on these drugs- this can give you time for treatments in the pipeline to become more mature and accessible down the road. One treatment down the road to be aware of is Lutetium-177 PSMA-617 radio ligand therapy. I am lucky enough to pass through the needle in the Phase III VISION study on this drug- I can say I have had good response after one infusion.
I bring this up to you now because, well, timing is everything in getting into clinical trials, and the following very recent paper describes very good responses with this therapy in men who have mets only to the lymph nodes- even compared with only one or two bone mets as well as nodal metastases. For men who will develop bone mets, the window of node-only disease can be small since PC goes to the bone very easily in most. This paper suggests that window to be a very good time for Lu-177 therapy and recommends that Phase II studies examine this idea. Maybe, down the road, such a study will be ongoing, or maybe even in practice when you need it.
Here is the paper:
http://www.oncotarget.com/index.php?journal=oncotarget&page=article&op=download&path%5b%5d=26789&path%5b%5d=83245best wishes to you both
rockyfords