Agree. Don't think he is well enough informed.
My brother is Mensa smart, but I think not handling wisely.
I am not Mensa smart, but was wise enough to consider my Uro's advice as one data point, and to continue my research here and elsewhere, and consulted with several practitioners. And decided on the therapy I felt made the most sense, which wasn't what my Uro had recommended. And maybe I would be in the same place today if I had chosen other therapy, but I feel good that I did my research and went with what I thought made sense.
He is apparently not
open to more input. It is what it is.
My brother lives in England and I wonder if the attitude there towards health care there is less questioning and, even if you are a smart guy, you are more likely to go along with what your Dr. says, especially if you are seeing someone you think is a rock star.
JNF said...
Works Out. Your brother only gets one chance at a treatment decision. My advice in this situation would be to do as I did. I was assessed by three different urologists. I was assessed by two different radiation oncologists, one that used permanent seed brachytherapy and one that performed High Dose Rate brachytherapy. I did not get a second opinion on my biopsy slides as my urologist used Bostwick Labs and they, with Epstein, are the best. All this took about three weeks.
I learned a lot and was able to make a well informed decision that I have never looked back on. I didnt have the luxury of time due to my high risk diagnosis. Your brother has all the time on his side given his very low risk diagnosis. He owes it to himself and his family to do much more investigative work before making a treatment decision.
If you didn’t care about him, you wouldn’t be so concerned and he may need to hear this from you. And if he tells you to “butt out” it probably wont be the first time, nor the last time, and it sure should not have any negative effect on your relationship. In my opinion, he is a bit cavalier and placing too much faith in the one urologist. Typically on this forum when men are asked about their regrets regarding treatment choices, the universal one from most is that they did not do enough initial research and get multiple assessments.