As someone who just had to make this decision I appreciate this post and the responses.
I was advised by both surgeons and ROs that with my situation my long-term outcome was basically a toss-up.
I am fully aware that with G8 PCa (have not got the final pathology so that could go up or down) my chances of recurrence/metastasis are pretty high, and I can deal with that. I also fully understand that salvage radiation can have very serious SEs, and I may have to stare those down someday.
So here are my bullet points that led me to my final decision.
- There was no evidence that the cancer had spread outside the prostate bed. Bone scan and CT scans were clear and my PSA was low.
- I am wary of radiation, it scares me. To me, surgical removal of the cancer seems a more 'natural' remedy.
- I was not willing to endure 2 years of hormone therapy, which was recommended.
- I was not willing to do 2 months (thereabouts) of daily trips to the hospital for radiation (EBRT) treatments.
- I did not think Brachy was a good option for me, and both my RO and surgeon were very anti-Brachy, and I respect their opinions.
- The possibility, however remote, that I may never need another treatment beyond the surgery. I have bad genes and as a result, other co-morbidities that are likely to kill me before PCa does.
- The DaVinci Surgical team at M Health Fairview here in Minneapolis is very renowned. My surgeon, Dr. Richard Zabell, is highly respected, and has done enough of these surgeries to give me confidence. He does multiple surgeries every week. We really hit it off and he was awesome with my wife and I during this entire process. My care team was/is world-class.
- I am relatively young (62) and in good physical shape. I was confident of my ability to tolerate and recover from the surgery.
- The possibility of incontinence did scare me but I think my procedure went well, my nerves were spared, and I'll get an idea of how that will play out after the catheter is removed on Friday. I know I won't know for sure, but I think there is a chance that I will have at least some bladder control right away. We'll see.
- The risk of ED doesn't scare me that much. Yes, I will miss a good hard on if I lose that ability, but I know there are treatments for that, and although I still enjoy sex, it is not a huge part of my happiness at this stage of my life.
- I know several other men that have had the surgery with great outcomes.
That's my .02 and if it helps someone else in their decision making process, then great!