Posted 7/15/2023 5:33 PM (GMT 0)
John, whatever treatment you decide, I wish you all the best for optimal cancer control, minimal side effects, and a speedy recovery!
Everyone's specifics are different — age, general health, diagnostics— so your treatment decision carries its own matrix of unique factors. But make sure you’re prioritizing up-to-date information as you ask questions & weigh your options — the treatments have been evolving at exponential rates. PCa is considered an “indolent” disease and researchers like to cite 5 or even 10 year metastasis or survival rates, which makes newer technologies difficult to fully assess. But a lot can be understood from careful research:
side effects can vary from person to person but there are documented trends, and they can be evident on shorter timescales than the long-term cancer control.
- new technologies and the novel treatments they enable are often incremental, building on past successes; a novel RT treatment becomes more pinpoint-precise than its precursor (Proton Beam.) A surgical approach with new laparoscopic robotic tools avoids previously unavoidable structures (Retzius Sparing, Pre-Peritoneal.) These innovations can have a huge impact on side effects, with minimal or no effect on cancer control.
- you’re in charge of your treatment, and doctors generally appreciate a patient who asks questions based on their own research and particular circumstances. Show up with a notebook with your questions, priorities, concerns — and write down the answers! It’s easy to get overwhelmed with the torrent of complicated information, so take your time and make sure you cover the key issues on your punch-list during your consultations.
- it’s okay to make decisions based on your gut. As others have said here, once you drill into the information and carefully consider your options, make your call. Get input from your spouse / partner / family / close friends on what your medical team is telling you, then choose your path and get on with it. There are no wrong choices.
- there are lots of guys here who have been through what you’re facing, and while they have a variety of opinions, their first-hand knowledge is invaluable. Don’t hesitate to ask questions, post entire texts of biopsy reports etc. — there’s a very good chance someone here has insights that you won’t hear from a doctor or from anyone who’s not been through this journey. After providing me with an opinion on a treatment approach, one of my doctors added, “But I’m not sitting in your chair.” There are guys here who *have* sat in your chair!
best of luck,
nels