IntoTheUnknown said...
It is good to see so many others going through this that have not only the experience to help new members but also valuable advice on what to expect in the months ahead. I'm not sure how long it takes for the initial shock to go away but Ive decided to take it easy and mostly just wanted to be alone to process all this. Even hobbies are taking a back seat to this while I wait to find out if they verify cancer and most importantly the stage. I fear that many years of high and jumping PSA numbers may have allowed this thing to grow and its only a matter of time before it might metastisize to lymph nodes etc. I can only hope that if biopsy confirms the lesions that they remain confined in the prostate. I have no fear of death and have lived an amazing life and even had my hurricane work featured on the Weather Channel. Now my entire world has been turned upside down and any future projects I want to go out and shoot might not even be possible depending on treatment options and how much of a drain they have on my energy and quality of life. I do fear a loss of control and losing my independance. I have no intention of telling my son and will try to hide everything for as long as possible. Best not to worry or burden anyone.
Don't go there, your mind is saying death sentence and the reality is that most men have ordinary prostate cancer that can be treated a number of ways and life marches on.
My wife was involved right away being a cancer veteran herself, follow by my father who was a PCa survivor and then my two sons after I had a positive diagnosis and some idea of a solution. The biggest problem I had with my brother/sister and two sons was to eliminate the idea of having the "good" cancer and no, you don't just take meds for it.
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a month or so after surgery, road trips & vacations still occurred and life got back to normal once the physical restrictions were lifted. After radiation at 9am, I would head to Home Depot, food store and/or fitness center to do my daily business and get on with my day. Sure, I was tired and and took more naps when needed but still kept going forward and getting things done.
Prostate cancer diagnosis and treatment is not a walk in the park but it is not even close to a death sentence and just another one of life's setbacks. Heck, I was getting knee injections a couple of weeks after prostate surgery which is just another part of getting older that I don't enjoy either. There is a newscaster here (MSP - Randy Shaver) who had lymphoma treatment early on and later PCa treatment that he shared on TV while he continued to do TV Sports and News. He rarely missed a broadcast during 6 weeks of radiation and is retiring this year.
Look at all the survivors of PCa and not the men that die from it after discovering too late. You are doing all the right things and no reason to be pessimistic.