Grunt, If your not doing Kegeals yet start doing them now. Continue to do the as directed by your Dr. after surgery. If you look at my Journal you will see I'm one of the Unlucky few that has had leakage problems longer than most. I am having a cystoscope on The 20th to see what is going on. The Dr. may also do a colligen ingection if he thinks it may help. Will update my Journal when I know more.
I still use the Depends Underguards for men. They slip into the front of your underwear. At work when I'm on my feet all day I have to change almost every hour to make sure I don't have any "break out's"
Good luck with your Journey. KW