New to all of this.

Me: 47, married, two kids, 14, 6. Father died in April of prostate cancer.

My Dr. has been doing PSA's for years just cause. In Jan, mine was 4.6. Biopsy shows nothing, but hi-grade PIN.

Oct. PSA was 5.06.   Nov. 2 biopsy found one core positive - 20% of the sample. 3+3=6 gleason.  Very early, they say/hope. I will do surgery.

Anyone have anything to say re: Sloan Kettering in NYC vs. NY Presbyterian/Columbia Univ? Hope to have DaVinci in NYC. i live an hour north of city.

I have an appointment with both. Also seeing Aaron Katz (Prostate health book) for any other ideas.

I bought Patrick Walsh book.

Talk about life changing in an instant!  I very grateful this place is here!

Thanks

Paul

chas036 says:

 ""was that I have no ED problems what so ever and can get a full and hard erection without drugs. But you know what?,,,,it is completely worthless to me becuase of my incontinence.  Because I drip so much and when I an orgasm I ejectulate urine, my wife wants nothing to do with me until I stop leaking. ""

Charlie, I am having the same problem with peeing while being stimulated or during sex.  I found a solution for me-a set of penis tension rings, specifically the Encore ImpoAid system.  This system is 4 sized rings, lube, and a cone and adapter applicator for placing the tension ring on the penis.  This system is for those who are fortunate enough to be able to get erections without pumps or injections, but who want or need to keep the blood in the penis for some time.  The tension rings are sized such that you should be able to find one that will keep you from peeing while erect or having sex, by clamping off the urethea and preventing urine from escaping while the ring is in place.  I found the size needed to keep me from peeing is small but is pretty comfortable when in place.  Maximum time to have it on your penis is 30 minutes.  It takes a little  practice and experimenting to make it work good every time, but this may be what you need to allow for sex and keep your wife happy and comfortable with sex with you. Wearing a proper sized one of these is more confortable for me than using the Vacurect washer type rings.  Just 16.17 plus 6.95 or so shipping here:

http://www.jrsmedical.com/RINGS/ENCIA4/product.aspx?s=gaw&kw=ENCIA4&gclid=CKPnppW-jJACFQGnPAod5DU2uA

The tension ring is placed onto the cone, which is fitted into the recess of the sleeve.  The ring is pushed down the cone, onto the plastic sleeve, the sleeve is placed on the erect penis and the tension ring is rolled off the sleeve onto the base of the penis.  The included instructions are clear and precise.  Hope this helps your situation.

James C.