buckeye , hello my brother ... your way ahead of the game at this point,continence is a funny thing , the dry at night thing is a great sign, i too wore just a couple a day infact they werent even pads they wee womens pantiliners,MUCH MORE COMFY, , for me i was dry at 10 weeks , personally i never did the kegals, doc said it didnt make much difference in a guy my age, good luck and keep in touch your DEFINATLY on the right track.................dirt