Greetting from the other side of the pond! Bladder control is definately an issue for some. I suggtest three things: 1) drink less or nothing after dinner; 2)drink no caffine or alcohol at dinner; 3) set an alarm to wake you 3 - 4 hours into your sleep. A pee alarm! It should get better soon and celebrate the fact that you use so few pads during the day. Many of us, me included, have bladder control issues during the day and are ok at night!