www.ivy-rose.co.uk/HumanBody/Urinary/Urinary_Bladder_Urethra_Male.phpThis website has a great diagram of the whole system. The sphincter at the neck of the bladder is taken with the prostate because in actuality, there is no space between the prostate and the bladder. If you read Patrick Walsh's Prostate Cancer book, there is a whole great series of drawing of what happens in the surgery. The only sphincter left is the External sphincter right at the top of the bulb. If a surgeon is sloppy, this sphincter can be damaged and continence will not come back. In the old surgeries, the whole area was taken out and men ended their lives incontinent and impotent. We've come a long way baby.
Men hardly use the external sphincter. In sexual arousal, this muscle locks
open so that semen will readily evacuate. The Internal sphincter and a secondary valve in the prostate shut. Post surgery, our body still tells this muscle to
open wide...which is why so many men leak or ejaculate urine. After all the trauma it simply takes a while for this small muscle to take over and learn to compensate for the loss of the other mechanisms. On reflection, it's amazing it happens at all. We're pretty fortunate.
Paul
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