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I think on reading this entire topic that you believe strongly that doctors have all the information about
your case, are fully informed about
your condition and therefore make recommendations you can trust. That is certainly one way to interact with doctors, in fact it's probably how most people interact with doctors.
Me and my husband have adopted a different model when dealing with doctors and prostate cancer - we listen carefully to our doctors thoughts and recommendations and we ask a lot of questions about
his/her diagnosis and recommendations. We think carefully about
what we can actually agree with and what we don't. We believe that many doctors are ignorant about
prostate cancer, including urologists and my sister who is an internal medicine specialist in New York completely agrees with me on this. We have to make constant judgements about
what a doctor actually knows because some of them know very little about
PCa, not because they are stupid but because they have so many other conditions they deal with and many of them simply do not keep up to date.
In order to get to this point we educated ourselves about
our own case by keeping and poring over copies of every result and learning about
this disease from books, this forum, our medical results, my sister who is a doctor and I am confident I know more about
this disease and my husbands condition than many doctors. We have probably studied this disease for over 500 hours, an average doctor probably spends a few hours on it in medical school. My sister says for her it was a few hours 12 years ago and at that time a psa of under 7 was not suspicious.
This approach has been the correct one for us - if we hadn't pressed the primary care physician he would not have sent us to a urologist, the urologist was reluctant to do a biopsy and again we persuaded him though what we had learnt, the biopsy came back as ASAP (suspicious but not diagnostic for cancer) and the urologist told us that that it was very common that this happened (actually the literature shows that its 1-4% of the time) and not to worry. We insisted, after reading this site that we needed an expert opinion on the biopsy. The pathologist came back with 3+3 cancer. And it goes on and on....
The way you approach doctors and the way we approach doctors are different. Neither of us are wrong. But where you see people "playing doctor" on this site I see an interesting discussion that may help me broaden my knowledge about prostate cancer. No one in their right mind would take information from the internet and especially a forum as gospel (in fact it is the forum rules that you do not) but sites like these allow people to understand what other patients have learnt through their journey and that is a very healthy thing.
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