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Davidg:
Wow. You don't post for awhile and then return with a bunch of ridiculous assertions. Hey, I'm a pro-surgery guy (despite the fact that mine didn't work, I know it works for the majority if PC patients).
What I do notice very much so is to be expected: we tend to, in a subtle or not so subtle manner, support whatever choices we made. There are certain posters that all I have to do is note their names and I know they will be pro-radiation. So what. That's the value of this board. We all have different experiences.
When I first got dx. (and even before) I did a lot of reading on HW. We did have the strident few who were clearly in left field with their own axes to grind. But, overall, when looking at the totality of posts, I learned more than I did from any other medium.
In short, I just have not seen any kind of animosity towards those who had surgery. Of course, for those who appear to be spamming for a particular surgeon, well maybe they were greeted a tad ...vigorously.
Mel
It's an opinion I have. One that is easy to verify btw.
You were operated on by a celebrity surgeon. One that is considered among the best. Everytime someone comes here asking for advice I don't see you or any of the other surgery guys post " give Menon a call" or "read Menon's blog".
On the other hand, you can see Scholz or that controversial book he wrote being recommended almost every time in those same threads.
Also, if the people who do not recommend surgery, and constantly point out the possible negative side effects don't also point out the extremely frequent great stories coming out of the surgery guys one could argue that their bias is dubious at best.
This site is extremely helpful, it's great. But it's a peer to peer group and I think it's best for folks to learn by actually talking to their doctors and other medical professionals, not random guys who like to play doctor.
There are some who have an inherent abundant amount of animosity towards doctors and their motives and this sometimes comes across very strongly. I personally don't believe this is a great thing for a "newbie" to hear.
Not sure what you mean by coming back with a "bang". I posted an opinion. I got back a few days ago from apt hunting in Rome and read 3-4 threads total. In two of them a veteren member here got attacked for no reason whatsoever and the other two also had what i call "pissing contests". I didn't even have the Internet at the time those threads were posted.
enjoy.