Hi Alf,
I really have not changed anything or attempted sex.
I do have the same thing going on that you describe. It is very unpredictable when the urge might come on and sometimes can just go away. While other times I have to sprint to the bathroom. The cold weather here is not helping either.
Today I am fine and seem to "know" that I have to use and just go.
I really don't think I hurt myself lifting the gas. I think the strain caused me to pee. It was not much, just enough to spot.
I was worried yesterday and ready to call, but it seems like I have been poked so much the last few months that I just want to wait and see if this works out. I had the same thing 3 weeks after radiation and stopped taking Flomax and then it stopped until now. So I figured the flomax was bringing it on.
I know I can call and discuss this with either my oncologist or urologist anytime.