Results: Reminds me of my first computer. (It had no hard drive, instead it used 5 ½ inch floppy disk).
Had a light dinner (low fat) around 5:30, got away from the table by 6. Took the pill at 7:15. Went upstairs and at 8:45 (after saying goodnight to the kids). Soft music, cuddling, playing, touching for nearly an hour did not have desired results (for me at least 
).
Take pill earlier? Crush or chew pill?
Bottom line, we did have fun. Wife was very turned on by process, (although the leakage bothered her some). She was indeed a very good sport, and agrees that “we just have to keep practicing, until we get it right”. She’s a keeper.
Any suggestions or recommendations will be appreciated.