Fun to be the pawn and cash cow for some....what you do is fire him yesterday (lol) and find someone whom is not a soup n_zi type. I got 8 opinions in my own case, I saw lairs, agendas, biases and a few excellent docs too. Based on my small sampling (lol), this is like the real world of PCa. Dr. Strum mentioned to us all that maybe 10-15% of the docs are 'expert' worthy, 70-75% are average and 10-15% are dangerous....since he is one of the most experienced 'ever' in PCa and a smart one...I believe his generalization. I did find docs that are my kind docs, so maybe you can too.
Good luck it is a blanking jungle out there, hope you don't ever face HT therapies, that is another fun program.