John T said...
Frack,
I don't regret being treated because I don't have any side effects. If I were incontinent or impotant I may very well have regretted my treatment. I had a pretty large tumor and a G4+3, but I lived with it for over 12 years without any negative results. I have no doubt that I could have gone another 12 years symptom free, beyond that there are a lot of unknowns. Good probability of dying in 20 years, but I would be 85 and most like dead anyway.
Getting treated probably bought me a couple of years if I look at it objectively, obviously with no side effects I drew the right cards, I don't know how I would react if I had to wear diapers or had severe bowel issues or pain like Purg had. Would an extra couple of years living be worth it, probably not.
I don't regret getting treated either. I'm exactly where I was pre surgery with the exception of dry orgasms and stronger stream when I pee.
I see the statistics by the better robotic surgeons in the country and they all seem to be around 80% for Ed and 90s for continence. Sure, perhaps they cherry pick their patients. I'm aware of that possibility.
Wouldn't you say that if these numbers become widespread over the next years, as technology and surgical skills improve, that the concern for over treatment vis-a-vis SEs will die down?
Also, regardless of the above, don't you think that many a man, me included, goes into the decision to have any treatment well aware of the possible SEs and still feels his choice in treatment is well worth it because his number one goal is to attempt to find a cure.
Regarding your other post, it's tricky. I wasn't asked by my general doc if I agreed to having a PSA test. If I was asked I would have agreed in a heartbeat anyway. But the fact that he did run this simple blood test allowed him to find a G7 tumor in a 40 year old man. I saw your other post above rationalizing five years here and there vis-a-vis SEs but I'm the age of your sons. And there are a lot of us my age. What would happen to us without the screening? Don't you agree that this is dangerous for people in my category?
finally, not to get too personal, but if you had a 40 year old son (maybe you do), would you suggest the have a PSA test knowing what you know about
the disease irrespective of you having it?
David