njs said...
A few key points you guys seem to be missing:
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How refreshing to see reality expressed as it is, in this dark place where the line seems to be towed.... or at least, apparently ..
Searching folk, desperate folk... they come and go... but the dark place remains.
We are all different , and our conditions different but reality remains.
Doctors specialise, and want to do their OWN thing..
Cutters cut, burners burn, chemists poison.......
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I do NOT know a single male for whom life after PC was the same.
If radiation was the choice, minimal change was the norm for a time, and then after the meat was fully cooked, they ended the same. Same as the cut...
But NEVER certain of anything..
I do wonder why my experience is so different to what I read on here, and one BBC Knowledge presentation from Australia, seemed to be realistic and I think they quoted 30% of men as having minimal change after treatment.
I was told 80% chance of a normal life..
Ironically, I do wonder how much of that 30% figure is bravardo.
Why do men think they are any different to women, when it comes to cancer.
We don't want it, and did not ask for it, but have to live or die with it.
We all likely should have thought about
how we may have reduced our risk of getting it, but why, why would we, as it would not happen to us..
Those of my circle who got cut, are alive and well, but boy, the sex life has changed..
Not One boasts to having a real love life.. few will ever even talk, because there is LITTLE they can do.. at best men confirm all is not well, with no added comment...
Old friends who were burnt, seemed to be basically "in remission".. nothing more or less.
They burn the older, as the likelihood of suffering worse induced cancers, is less, because their time card has already been punched.
Not Strangely, they would not agree ....'....
The one opinion that I hear consistently , from those that were cut, is that they are happier living with an expectation that the CANCER is GONE... BUT
oh boy, do we miss it
Then we sign off from here and (almost ) never return.. forgotten...
Three years Cancer Free..
PTL n PTP
So, my silly advice if you are new here , is to suggest ---" understand that ALL uros want to get you through the next five years. "
If they get you that far, then they have done a good job.. but if you think that you are worth more than five years, forget the JiggyJiggy, and think about
how many years you are really worth.
Think about
who will miss you most.. your family or the URO ..
If the hand you are dealt, is not a flush, then take whatever steps you can to survive as long as you can and as comfortably as you can.. our prayers go with you.
Oh so many here in this place, can't boast "comfort "..
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Post Edited (BuiDoi) : 6/22/2013 5:21:00 PM (GMT-6)