Hey David,
Sounds like you have the communication issues all under control now with the help of your nurse. Yes, when you have a good nurse looking out for you it makes the medical service much smoother. And, you have a nurse/wife! I liked what you said about patience, something I have to remember when I am anxious to get service or an answer. When my wife and I moved to a new area 4 hrs. away after retirement, we had to find new doctors after 15 years with the same ones.
I admire you for your easy going way and persistence in dealing with PCa.
Robert