To answer some;
Post op is the same from what I can tell so I added that information.
The 10% thing? I still have some surprises but as long as I'm real carefull 10% is a good answer. I didn't even really use the pad after my cath was removed. This just made things a little better to handle, for me anyway. The surprises are still humbling.
David and sephie ? Thanks for the encouragement I still try to prepare for the worst as that's what I'm used to, besides that makes good news great!
I had to fight Hodgkins for a lot of my childhood and won thinking this was the end of cancer, course I learned there is no relation and I laughed and said "of course"
I have a lot to learn about something I knew so little about. Thank you folks and this wonderful site.