Dang, I hate it when new members need to join our club, particularly when they're high-risk like I am. That said, you'll get lost of great advice and support here. So here's a few thoughts:
1) If you haven't already, read Casey's sticky thread at the top for the newly diagnosed.
2) Get a second opinion on your biopsy slides. On first read, I was a Gleason 8 but the experts re-classified me as a Gleason 9. If it had gone the other way and I was a Gleason 7, I might have chosen a different treatment option. Go to the best for this: Casey's thread gives you the names for this.
3) Find a medical oncologist that specializes in prostate cancer. There's not a lot of those, but you want to find someone on your team with the best, broadest and unbiased opinion on treatment options. If they're not near you, many will do a phone consult. (My guy, Dr Lam here in Los Angeles is great, but there are others.) Keep in mind that urologists are surgeons, so it's not a surprise yours is recommending surgery. I'm not saying that's not your best best option, but wouldn't it be great to hear that from an unbiased expert?
On a personal note, I had originally planned to have surgery, but instead opted for the triple play of brachytherapy, external radiation and hormone therapy. As a high-risk guy like you, there was about
a 50-50 chance that I would need salvage radiation after my surgery and then I would have had to put up with burden of surgery side effects PLUS radiation side effects. And the research suggests the combination play is just as good as surgery (and arguably better) for high-risk patients. You may have a different thought process about
what's important (everyone's different here), but that was mine.
All the best to you as you go through your journey. I'm confident that in the long run you'll be fine. You can beat this thing!
Michael
Post Edited (Michael_T) : 8/16/2013 3:30:17 PM (GMT-6)