Trimix works even if the mind does not. GF got tired of it, something akin to a really big "tool" with an uninterested guy attached. Still use it to keep the parts working, but the "attachment" with said GF has gone elsewhere. Yes, we drink beer I don't like, and watch movies I won't admit to ever having seen.
Admitting all that was tough. I had a really bad, hard fought, long day when I finally admitted life had changed, then went out and bought a new .45 ACP and a few hundred rounds of ammo.
That which does not kill you (makes you stronger) will be back tomorrow to try again, so prepare accordingly.