Posted 9/13/2013 1:31 AM (GMT 0)
On 9-12-2012, my Urologist's ordered a Biopsy test for Sept. 19, 2012 because he did an DRE test and my prostate was 4X enlarged and my PSA was 126 (starting PSA). The next afternoon, Thursday, Sept.13, urologist’s DR. called me at home and said my PSA was now up to 128 (in the meantime, my wife and I had been on the internet learning all we could about prostate). I ask my doctor if he thought I had prostate cancer, he said yes. I was scheduled for a return visit Wed., Oct. 3, 2012 for a follow-up report of my biopsy. Monday (Oct. 1, 2012) morning around 9AM, my urologist’s called me at home and gave me the BAD news of my biopsy (all of the 12 cores with high volume and very aggressive and advance; GS-9, 11 cores between 15%-100% cancer-6 were 100%). He told me that his nurse was trying to schedule me TODAY to go have a full body bone scan and a CT. I went for those two tests the next day (Oct. 2nd). Back to Monday morning (10-1-2012), this morning, he was to call in a prescription to start taking Bicalutamide 50 mg, daily (Casodex) ASAP. Monday afternoon, (Oct. 1st, I picked up the Casodex that afternoon and have been taking every day since. Oct. 3rd, appointment with my urologist’s, told me the bad news of the bone scan showing evidence of metastases from my right skull down to my toes (hadn’t gotten the CT report yet, this was 3:30PM). I ask my Doctor how long to live, Dr. told me I had 4-5 years at the most to live. I didn’t want my wife to come to this visit as I had a feeling with so much lower back and right hip pain for several weeks, it wasn’t going to be good. Dr. nurse gave me a double injection of Firmagon (Degarelix) and was to get a single injection every 28 days starting Nov. 2, along with a shot of Xgeva. He also had me to start taking 800-1000 IU/day of Vitamin D and 1200 MG of Calcium.
After the phone call, for about 15 minutes, I was SO overcome with emotions. For the First time in my life it seemed if I couldn't catch my breath. Needless to say, I called my son-in-love and ask him to come and pick me up and for the rest of the day, I would go to my daughter and his house. Emotions out the walllllllll. I stay there until my wife got off of work and shared the news with them all!! Let the tears begin, (and they sure did). After the fact, I would have rather met him face to face instead of the phone call on Monday! Two days later (Oct. 3), the Dr gave me the full reports of all the test except the CT. I was along in his office as I didn't want my wife to be there and see her break down. BTW, her parents both died of Cancer 1 1/2 years apart (mom 50 and dad was 57). Left four of my wife's brothers and sister's under the age of 16 which we took in along with our only child, daughter, 5 years old. She is the oldest of 13 kids (12 still living).
But as you can see from my signature, I'm doing much better. Just taking it a day at a time..
Sorry I'm so long! AGAIN, SO GLAD I FOUND HW.
Dave in Bartlett, TN