Welcome aboard the roller coaster of life. Just when you thought you had gone through enough bumps in a lifetime, this happens. The good news is we all know how you feel having been there ourselves.
I never like to tell someone what treatment option to take. We all had our reasons we chose what we chose and you need to decide what is best for you.
IF you decide on surgery, you will want to pick the best that you can get who has done MANY SURGERIES. There are about
a dozen "rock star" prostate cancer surgeons in the country. You are fortunate to be living in Florida because we have our own "rock star" surgeon, Dr. Vipul Patel. He works out of a Celebration Health in Celebration, FL near Disney World, which is a Florida Hospital like Wesley Chapel. Florida Hospitals are great hospitals. Celebration Health has 2 Da Vinci robots.
Dr. Patel has done over 7,000 surgeries, more than any doctor in the world. Most great surgeons have done 4.000-5,000 surgeries. There are some great ones in NY also.
Understand that there are no guarantees with any doctor. No guarantees he will get all the cancer, no guarantees you will be continent quickly, no guarantees you will not have ED after surgery. But you will want the best you can get so you have the odds in your favor.
Reading Walsh's book is a good start. Talk to several doctors with different treatment options. My wife and I asked my urologist who he would want do his surgery if he needed surgery. That was how I got Dr. Patel's name.
Whatever decision you make, a great relief comes over you at that point. You become ready to wrestle with this beast inside you and not let it win the fight.
Good luck
Bill from Florida