We can do this said...
My urologist insisted on annual tests from age 40, despite no family history. Why wouldn't you? Not a big deal (though he does have sausage fingers) and earlier is better re warning signs. I am very thankful to him for his insistence and vigilance.
Sausage Fingers!
I learned to take a glance at the rack of gloves hanging on the wall. If the most-used box was the extra larges, that added to the anxiety.