I hate the leaking
sex is not the same
I have lost all interest in female companionships
I suffer with QOL
So, I drink a little more sometimesChris R, I’m not going to shift and make it about
you. It’s not about
you. It’s about
you to you, but not about
you in the context of my reply, or for others reading this thread in the future. But if you need the facts to be lined-up in the way you have envisioned them here for your own well being, then so be it…for you. I don’t have a problem with that. I am however concerned for how others—newcomers who are coming to this site to learn—might interpret some of your comments when reading these comments now or in the future. As I just said yesterday in another thread, most doctors say it’s misinformation which makes it hard for them to convince men to go onto AS. It’s often the anecdote steeped in misinformation which can be the most damaging. As JFK said,
“The great enemy of truth is very often not the lie—deliberate, contrived and dishonest—but the myth—persistent, persuasive and unrealistic. Too often we hold fast to the clichés of our forebears. We subject all facts to a prefabricated set of interpretations. We enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought.”People often quote the first line, but I think that last sentence is the most poignant:
“We enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought.” So I apologize in advance if I give you any perception that I am calling you personally out on this…it’s not you the individual, it’s the generalized inaccuracies sprinkled in the middle which you have written about
that I am calling out. I’m also sorry, indeed, about
your poor QoL; we all who have undergone treatment for PC suffer diminished QoL…and some poor souls with low-risk PC seem to have particularly gotten the short-straw and by pure (bad) luck suffer much more significantly than others of us…often, completely unnecessarily.
So you wrote:
So, on a very strict AS program you might be able to feel somewhat secure your are probably G6, but the anxiety of not really knowing what you actually are may wear on people over the years.
But the psychological studies of low-risk men on AS versus their counterparts who sought immediate treatment shows
the opposite of what you speculated. Let’s not leave misleading impressions for others to incorrectly draw from. You indicated it would get worse; studies show that over time it gets better and the gap (the differences in QoL) which was initially close between the two groups slowly widens. It got better for the men who remained on AS because they came to realize that indeed they did not need the treatment which was offered to them, they see the onerous side effects which they avoided, and they see their AS counterparts successfully moved to treatment when needed.
I’ll also call out, in complete fairness, that your statement that
”QOL is much…much…much better for untreated men” is not in alignment with the psychological study findings either. Low risk men who seek immediate treatment and those with similar cases who go initially on AS start out with about
the same anxiety levels as a measure of QoL. The gap widens over time, though, and while some men on AS have eventually been described as “ebullient” as their anxiety dimishes when confidence and “patient education” builds and accumulates, it does take some time to more fully realize the satisfaction with their choice.
But what about
those who are “weeded out” of the AS programs (typically when their Gleason score rises). They, too, are
successes of the program because they sought treatment when treatment was needed. While they have successfully deferred treatment and enjoyed perhaps years of extended QoL, they also benefit from the continuous and rapid improvements which are taking place everyday in the medical and technical aspects of treatments. In the words of Dr. Ian Thompson,
”If you have a choice of a dollar today or a dollar 10 years from now, take the dollar today. But if you have a choice of a curative treatment for prostate cancer today or a curative treatment for prostate cancer 10 years from now, choose it 10 years from now.” But the important question is whether these men fare any worse than those who seek immediate treatment, and the data shows that they do not.
This is important to understand: there is a small percentage of men initially diagnosed as low-risk who go onto AS who will eventually die of PC,
but it is the same percent as those counterparts who sought immediate treatment. AS is not, and should not, be held up to a higher standard than that…it is not a “cure.”
Again, I’m sorry for the QoL issues you have shared here with us. And I hope low-risk men who may read this in the future can use your personal QoL experiences as a supplement to their own data-gathering to make the best possible decisions for themselves. We can all rally around this…paying it forward by presenting meaningful information to others who will in the future experience the
“discomfort of thought” necessary to make data-driven decisions for themselves.