Posted 8/11/2016 3:57 AM (GMT 0)
Dear Teamchris,
I can remember the first time you posted, in regard to your husband's case. In both of our cases, we started out "fighting" with a PSA of over 100, by the time treatments got started. It's sobering, I know ... that kind of news is tough to hear ... you have to get your "boxing gloves on" ... but you feel like someone has tied your hands behind your back before you even get started in the boxing ring. So ... I'm mindful of your recent news and thinking of BOTH of you.
In recent months, I watched producer Ken Burns' documentary special entitled "CANCER: THE EMPEROR OF ALL MALADIES" ... the documentary showed how cancer treatments have evolved over time ... but cancer was, and still is ... an "emperor" in terms of medical conditions.
With that being said ... you've seen some successes, with the P.S.A. creeping down. Now you are facing a setback ... those are TOUGH to take. I know many of us here have faced those dreaded setbacks ... that gut-wrenching feeling ... setbacks ... dreaded beyond all words to describe them ... that's how you are feeling right now, I can tell. I want you to know I am thinking of you and truly sending you my support.
You have a case with complexities ... there are many of us here in that same category ... I've learned over time that I am being TREATED ... not cured. It took a while for me to learn the difference, and to accept the difference ... we pursue treatments ... and we have to remain hopeful. Time to get those boxing gloves on, after all !
I call P.S.A. the "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon" to borrow from the movie title of the same name. The goal is to get that "tiger and dragon" locked into a cage ... and get them to hibernate !
We certainly have members here who have run through a second series of chemotherapy treatments. I have a couple of friends RIGHT NOW with complex cases ... and they are running through a second series of chemotherapy treatments and experiencing some meaningful success, when they felt their optimism waning.
This is a time to RALLY your medical TEAM together --- you need some top-notch expertise working on your case, going forward. This is tough stuff, I realize ... I got diagnosed in my 40s, quite unexpectedly, with a full-blown case of prostate cancer, followed by the discovery that the prostate cancer had already infiltrated both of my lungs.
I'm an elementary school teacher and had just started a brand new school year when I found out the news. So ... I am standing beside you RIGHT NOW as you put together a new treatment plan. Don't settle for second-best, in terms of doctors ... you've got to find a doctor who can advise you on the bone lesions and spinal involvement ... that's crucial for your case, and not to be ignored.
Since you are describing a case with complexities, let's get proactive. Have you sought out a second opinion yet for your case ? Have you assembled a top-notch medical team comprised of doctors who SPECIALIZE in advanced cases of prostate cancer ? I always say that every reader here DESERVES the best doctors they can find ... I want the best for you ...
In my case, I have a tremendous urologist and dedicated oncologist who work together as TEAM. I meet with my doctors every four weeks, year 'round, like clockwork. Beyond that, I decided to travel out-of-state and I added a UROLOGY ONCOLOGIST from Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, who specializes in advanced prostate cancer cases. I chose Mayo Clinic because of the advanced scans and imaging capabilities that they offer. I also wanted to seek out a SECOND OPINION and add that additional level of expertise to my case. I have other friends who now face my same diagnosis, and they have also followed this same pathway.
A recent testimonial for this course of action ... one of my best friends has an advanced case of prostate cancer ... he hit some setbacks and then a "brick wall" with his local doctors, in terms of treatment strategies. He decided to seek out a second opinion and traveled to Mayo Clinic and a new treatment strategy was set up for him, and he has had some meaningful treatment success in the past few months.
We have MANY tremendous medical facilities in every corner of this country, if you need a second opinion in your case. I travel to Mayo Clinic every few months now, for follow-up scans and consultations. Other members here receive outstanding care from medical facilities throughout the country ... California, New York, Florida, Arizona, Texas ... the list goes on and on. Something for you to strongly consider ...
We have members here whose doctors are now formulating patient-specific "chemo cocktails" ... if you decide to pursue another round of chemotherapy treatments. Many doctors are blending additional components such as carboplatin into the chemotherapy mixtures, based on individual patient needs ... that would be another important topic of discussion with your team of doctors.
A friend of mine lives in a distant state, but his doctors have consulted with doctors from both M.D. Anderson in Texas and Mayo Clinic in Minnesota ... and doctors from BOTH of those medical facilities helped "brainstorm" and formulate a specific chemotherapy mixture to suit my friend's individual case, when he needed it the most. My friend was losing hope ... and this specially blended "chemotherapy cocktail" has been helping him this past year.
My doctors have stated that we can certainly run another series of chemo treatments, down the road, for my case. In your case, ZYTIGA hasn't been tried yet ... I have been on that for an entire year now. There is also the possibility of XOFIGO for the bone involvement you are describing ... all of those medications are possibilities that you will want to discuss with your doctors. You mentioned radiation, and I'm sure that is also a strong option that needs to be explored for the bone mets that you described ... so, definitely some other treatments that could provide some meaningful benefit for you ... options that are approved and ready for use RIGHT NOW, as we speak.
Sometimes, you have to become your own ADVOCATE ... you have to push and pull ... and find those doctors who can "think outside the box" and be willing to pursue cutting-edge, advanced treatments for complex cases. You have to ask those hard questions ... "What do we do next? What is your vision for our next set of treatment options? What ELSE can we try? What other treatments would be helpful? Which doctors SPECIALIZE in these areas of concern?"
A few months ago, I sat down with my doctor and did just that ... I sat down with my oncologist and together, we "mapped out" his vision of possible treatment ideas for my future ... as we continue to look ahead.
More than anything, Teamchris ... I want to let you know that I am sending you my encouragement ... support ... loyalty ... and HOPE ... to both of you.
Stay STRONG ... stay POSITIVE ... and stay DETERMINED, as you consider new treatment strategies.
May your courage be UNDAUNTED, going forward,
"Cyclone Fan" ~ Iowa State University