Almost a 10 said...
Hi 57Partnership,
Sorry to hear that you and your husband find yourself on this site but you did find a great bunch of supportive guys and their significant others that can help you navigate these uncharted waters you are in. I too had lesions in two spots on my spine that at the insistence of my urologist were biopsied and found to have no cancer. Each biopsy was performed separately. My urologist recommended surgery and without the biopsy, I would have never been offered surgery and would have been treated systemically. I must say that before the biopsy I was placed on hormone therapy and some suggest that hormone therapy works extremely fast to shrink tumors. Others suggest that although the doctor performed the biopsy he likely missed the cancer. I think my point is that if you are considering surgery, have the lesion biopsied to determine if cancer exists there. Otherwise it will be more difficult getting surgery approved.
However, surgery has many side effects and both you and your husband must be fully aware of what the side effects are and whether they are worth having surgery.
Thank you, 10. Biopsy on the lesion is scheduled to ensure we know what's there.
Want to hear something crazy? Insurance has denied RALP because, and I'm quoting, "documentation does not support the medical necessity for a prostatectomy as there is no evidence of lymph node or distant metastatic involvement". Has anyone ever experienced this?