Posted 1/11/2018 5:21 PM (GMT 0)
I don't have treatment advice to offer, and am not intimate with the advanced PC 3rd-line/4th-line treatments.
What I can offer is my personal experience working with an oncologist in a different advanced case with a different cancer, and also from a book I read titled "Being Mortal," by Atul Gawande (I highly recommend).
From the book, the author describes 3 kinds of relationships doctors have with patients:
1. paternalistic -- tells you what do do
2. informative -- gives you information, but not guidance (sounds like dad's doc)
3. interpretive -- helps patients determine priorities and achieve them
My experience is that after researching whatever you can on your own, when you (the patient, or the patient's close family member) tell the oncologist that you need more help from them making the best decision, you can steer them towards being more of the interpretive care giver...the 3rd example given above. It may become increasingly important to re-establish the physician-relationship now because over time as some advanced cancer cases switch to palliative care...then this is very important.
Good luck. Get the book.