Hey Rock:
Hang in there. We all had some pain down there after surgery. It's just taking your pain a little longer to subside.
Time for surgery varies due to procedure and surgeon. The rob/lap generally takes longer than the open surgery. For example, my open surgery took one hour, which was the average time for the surgeon I selected. Another guy who had the robotic the day after me at the same facility was in the OR for a good bit longer.