Moved out

(((((((((((((((((((((HUGS SUSIE))))))))))))))))))))))

:)

You know what's best, not that you didn't give it a fair shot many times. I hope he's feeling better, however. Tough when you both have health issues to deal with as well as other marriage stuff.

It's been a rough ride for you. Keep us posted. It's good you have a place to stay for now.

quincy

A big hug for you ge strong xx

Sorry this happened to you.  Sounds like predisone is not your husband's only problem.  I know my husband is wonderful but NOT when on predisone.  I have to keep reminding myself of that but he realizes it which is good.  One reason I am hoping to avoid predisone myself - who knows how it will affect me!!

Good luck!  ElaineNY

Didn't know what was going on when i responded to your post earlier.I just wanted to let you know that oi'm really thinking about you and hope that things work out for you.This is a masiive change for you, one that can only be for the best in the long run i feel.
Marty

Splitting up is never a nice thing, it hurts, creates sadness and upset.  But with it brings something positive. I don't know your history or anything about your relationship but I do believe that when a relationship comes to an end change is good. Change is necessary.  it means you are doing something to help yourself (yourselves) taking a step out of the negative situation you were obvioiusly in and doing something constructive and positive instead of destructive and negative.  You could end up back together but one way or an other you need to move towards making things better.

I'm not minimizing your situation. I don't know anything about it but I do feel that when it comes to an end there is only one way things can go - UP!

take time to grieve for the relationship you obviously thought would work at one point and then look forward. 

Hope it gets easier soon for you.

 

((Hang in there)) I am not quite sure what is going on since I haven't had time to read many posts lately. But I am thinking of you too and I know you will do what is best.

Thank you all so much.... I've been pretty depressed the last few days, not knowing where I'll end up and all that. I thought the place I'm staying now was only a temporary thing, but in talking with the owner of the house yesterday, she assured me that if I need to rent and stay for a loooooong time, I'm welcome..... that was probably the BIGGEST load off my mind... Plus there is room here for me, my horse and my little dog.... I haven't felt like I had a home now for a while and after talking with Chris, the girl who ownes this ranch, I can stay as long as I want and rent the entire lower level of the house. She even asked me what she could to to make me feel more comfortable.. I was amazed with her generosity, when she hardly knows me yet..

Your posts brought me to tears... (happy ones)... The feeling of being cared for and thought about is such a healing thing when you are going through something like this. I am a bit overwhelmed with things still, but did manage to find a part time job painting houses for a painting contractor and still doing my hay business which has been getting busier every month. So, I should be fine financially and I know the emotional part will take some time, but with friends and support, that part will be all the more easier to recover.

Bob (Shrek)..lol...., You've been there for me as much as I for you... you are a very kind and generous man with your emotions and it goes a long way with people here at healingwell..... Quincy, you know my history pretty well and yes, I've tried to make it work for a long time, but lately I've been pounding my head against a brick wall and it was starting to really hurt! I felt bad leaving him while he's still recovering, but it was so bad..... I can't even put it in words.... Red, Fatboyslim~ you guys are awesome and always there when I need a boost!!!

Loneylane... We've got to get together.. now I have more time available.... Sweat Peas sometime soon perhaps????? :)

And, To all the other replys here... I can't thank you all enough for reaching out and sharing your thoughts and wishes... they mean more to me than I can express right now and just know that I'm doing a bit better now that I know that I can stay here as I really like it here! There is no TV, and NO Internet connection so I had to buy one of those wireless network cards and it seems to work pretty well even though I'm out in the country.

Thank you all again SO MUCH~~