Quincy, I find your comment discriminatory, insensitive, ignorant, offensive, outdated and prejudiced. What a ridiculous and arrogant statement to make. It justs shows the level of ignorance that still exists around HIV. Thank you for stepping forward and proving that are some in this world, that are still trapped in a mindset from the 80's.
Not that i care for your opinion, certainly not know that you've shown me your level of intelligence and stupidity, but why on earth would you think I wouldnt have children. Would you tell a sufferer of diabetes, cancer, heart disease, Cystic Fibrosis, to name a few, to not have children. Are you the type of person to tell people to shelve their dreams, close your bank account and curl up in a ball and die.
My brother is a diabetic Type 1. He is also a survivor of aggressive cancer. Would you tell him not to have children, to give up his job, to give up on dreams, on hopes, on life itself. What an idiotic and insensitive statement to make. Quincy, i hope you know you belong to a minority. An ignorant and moronic minority at that.
My live is great. I work full time, I go to the gym every day, I look great, i keep active and do more things than most 'healthy' people. I have a beautiful wife and YES, science has enabled us to have children. In fact they encourage it. Why? Because my disease is no longer a death sentence. Its a chronic disease, like diabetes, and is managed, like my brother injects 4 x times a day with insulin, i take pills every day. My life expectancy is near normal, all else being equal. I am able to give my children a great quality of life, just life you or anybody else. They will be healthy and will live a normal life, except they will have a father that has a medical condition. Just like millions of other children in this world.
So tell me why i should give up on life? You have a very warped understanding of how to deal with a disease. If we all gave up and didnt have hopes or dreams, then the world would be a very sad place. Thats what makes great people, the ability to grow and achieve in the face of adversity. Something you sound like you dont know much about.
I thought twice about disclosing my illness to you, and you just confirmed my beliefs, that some people are just plain stupid. So next time, think before you speak. Educate yourself and more importantly think about the offense you may cause others.
PS, Just a thought, but you have UC, so i think you should give up on life, curl up and go to bed. Pathetic!