Hello back!
If I just had the Leiden gene like my mom, I wouldn't have to take anti clotting unless something is major. But I also inherited the Prothrobin Gene Mutation G102010( or some such number like that) from my fathers side.
There is only a 1 in 7000 chance of that happening. They work together and double my risk of clots. My sister has only the leiden gene and she's like you.
And yes menopause sucks...I've just started and I get no meds what so ever, plus I am to avoid soy, flax and any other phytoestrogens. I really shouldn't complain, I could not know any of this like my mom and have had a stroke by now. She lost part of her vision as well as some speech as well.
I also got my autoimmune problems from her. She has PBC and Mastenia Gravis. My youngest son said he is not having children because we are geniticly screwed...
Oh and it's the Hematoligist that insisted about when to take the anticlotting...Now I think the dentist is afraid to do anything on me. The hematoligist told me I was lucky that the tummy tuck I had 3 years prior didn't go bad because of a clot, it was before we knew.