I have been on remicade for two years now and it has given me my life back. I don't like the risks from being on it but what choice do we have. I'm allergic to all 5 asa's and to 6 mp. I was diagnosed with severe uc thoughout my whole colon my last scope showed only mild inflammation on my right side. I will say this though. You still worry about
the bathrooms. I just went to the dells and it is about
two hours away and some rest stops are far if I would have to go. If I have to go I need to still find a bathroom right away but I can usually wait about
5 minutes. I haven't had any accidents since I have been on remicade. But we went for a walk in the woods and got lost and were in the woods for about
three hours. I ended up having to go to the bathroom in the woods(my kids thought this was soooo funny). When we were in the dells we went into town and no place lets you use the rest room you have to go down the street to where they are. If I had to go we would have had a problem. I didn't have to though. I still have to not eat or eat earlier before we leave because I might have to go. My urgency went away but you still worry. I do know when I will usually go. Once after breakfast, lunch, and maybe after dinner. Remicade had been a great drug for me but you will still worry and have to go to the bathroom. I don't think we ever get rid of the worry.
I can't imagine trying to date with UC it is so embarrasing sometimes. Alot of times I can just laugh it off but with new people I would feel stupid or embarrased. I would be horrified if i went in my pants with my mom or husband around I wouldn't imagine having to worry about it with some one new. Just remember if someone can't handle it they aren't worth it.