tchrmgr,
Welcome to this forum. Sorry to hear about
your recent diagnosis, and I well understand your fears, given your father's diagnosis and life.
You've come to the right place, and will get lots of great input here, from the folks in the trenches who have suffered a great deal, and tried many different avenues of medications, diets, supplements.
I will tell you right off the bat that I am very biased towards what put me in remission: Transdermal LDN )low dose naltrexone) - and if you want you can read about
it in this earlier post of mine:
https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=38&m=2079694If you have trouble with it and cannot access it, let me know and I'll repost it for you here.
I tried many conventional medications, including prednisone, without much relief. My doctor wanted to put me on the higher side effect ones (and expensive ones too), including Remicade and that's where I drew the line in the sand and said NO. I did my own research and found the LDN info, and figured with almost no side effects, why not? And I am so glad I did, because it works. Problem is you need to realise most doctors will NOT prescribe it to you. You have to get it from an alternative doctor, osteopath or someone like that and then get it from a compounding pharmacy.
My doctor also told me diet has no effect on UC. Suffice it to say, he's probably never had UC or he would know otherwise. Diet is a critical component in UC. Lots of folks here swear by SCD diet, and it is a good one. I follow that one too, but a little more liberally.
Supplements (another thing the doctor told me was of no value) are critical to UC too.
Here's where I would start: a good probiotic - I take VSL #3 - it's one made especially for UC people and contains 450 billion active cultures,
Slippery Elm Bark Powder - it helps coat the digestive tract, to me it's the equivalent of the mesalamine pills, Omega 3 or Krill Oil supplements, Vitamin D3 - you should get your levels checked because many IBD people have inadequate levels, L-Glutamine powder added to protein shakes - 15 grams - that's the dosage I take and it's important for colonic repair, drink lots and lots of good water and cut out all forms of soda as they create havoc for UC, get on some good liquid mineral and vitamin supplements ( I have some links to products I take if you need them) for easy absorption, and although I usually advise people to stay away from caffeine as it's a stimulant and could promote more movement in the colon than you would want - in your case, you may want to add a little caffeine to help you go more regularly.
Hope this helps. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.