I generally use Nice & Easy too- or Herbal Essences, whicehever is on sale really! I find that some gray hairs start to re-appear a week or so after coloring, so I just picked up some stuff at CVS, it's like mascara for your hair. Brush on the hairs, washes out. Why don't you want to go with a permanent color? I don't go lighter, no bleach involved, so for me, permanent is the only way to go. Otherwise I'd be dyeing my hair monthly. The perm only lasts about
6 weeks too.