Disneynut66 said...
I would suggest going to the ostomy board on healing well and j-pouch.org. I had the j-pouch and am very happy. Yes, I go 6-8 times a day (may go down to 4), but it's not urgent and doesn't hurt (I just go when I pee...in and out in a few minutes). Surgery is rough and if she decides on the j-pouch she needs to be a good candidate and she really needs to see an extremely experienced j-pouch surgeon. I drove 5.5 hours to go to the Cleveland Clinic. It was so worth it. This is a very complicated surgery. My surgeon does hundreds a year for over 15 years. Don't just get a referral, research it yourself. I wouldn't let anyone locally touch my colon.
Good luck and visit those other sites...they are so helpful.
You said you went to Cleveland? May I ask who your surgeon was? I just made an appointment there for my daughter. She has been on remicade for 4 years and may be losing response. We are checking our options. It sounds like maybe she would be a candidate for the one-step. That is our hope anyway. Any information you could share would be greatly appreciated!! We have to fly there so I won't have to drive anywhere but I am a bit nervous going to a big medical center in a big city I have never been to before.