Gosh mom2panda, I'm so sorry you're going through this too. We're not exactly in the same boat but some of it is similar.
Has your GI thought of putting you in the hospital or on IV pred to settle the whole system down?
I'm trying to approach my healing with a multi level strategy... Western meds, nutritionist, and visceral massage, along with lots of meditation and reading. One good book I think is already helping is called "When the Body Says No... Understanding the Stress-Disease Connection" by Gabor Mate' MD. It may already have mentioned here someplace, but he mentions UC on the first page!
Ultimately I'd love to see those of us interested in finding out how to make Western and alternative therapies work together, especially for people like me who haven't been able to find remission and whose disease seems to steadily worsen.
I think we can heal, too. I even found a Kaiser GI who was able to explain some of the digestive process in terms of stored trauma, WOW!
Healing is worth contemplating, and I believe it can happen!
Wishing you health,
potato