I just had an arguement with my mom. I'm disappointed in both of us.
She has been through it all with me; dx, treatment, testing, divorce, remission and now the relapse. She knows the ropes.
Today we're trying to make plans and she's basing the day around an eating schedule. I told her that she knows I am in a full blown flare and am not really thinking about food. She fired back that "I have to feed my kids". My children are 20 and 16, they have no problem eating what and when they want.
Now I feel guilty. I know I'm grumpy and edgy and probably snapped at her. She's just trying to get a plan together so that she can see her grandkids.
I guess I'll just have some patience with us both.