Posted 1/2/2012 5:59 PM (GMT 0)
Of course each person is different, but the idea that a bag is worse than death to you really shocks me. I had a similar story to you - tried every drug, diet, supplement etc available with no relief. Then I nearly died from blood clots, pneumonia, c.diff and sepsis which occured at the same time as side effects to my UC and the drugs I was taking, so the bag wasn't really a choice for me. It has been wonderful. I will have the takedown surgery in 2-3 weeks. Most of the time I don't even think about the bag. I'm able to do things and eat things I haven't in years. I got my life back. And when I have the takedown, sure, I'll have to go to the bathroom more often, but I will be able to hold it as long as I need to. After all I've been through, that doesn't seem to bad for me. Please just keep your options open. I know surgery is scary, but not having it can be scarier for a lot of people.