I'm a perfect example of the saying "hind sight is 20/20".
If only I had known how progressively worse my disease would take course back in 1998 when first diagnosed, I would have sought out a colorectal surgeon immediately. Instead, I stuck with the same GI who diagnosed me and all he did was use me as a guinea pig to try different meds. I did seek two other opinions but they too were GI doctors whose treatment methods were in total agreement with my doctor. After a brutal hospitalization in 2008 (thought they were going to carry me out of there in a pine box for sure), I went to a local colorectal surgeon. Big mistake. I had no idea what the j-pouch even meant back then. I believe I had just joined this forum. Anyway, this surgeon made the surgery sound like torture and to make matters worse, he told me I would be "going" anywhere from 8 - 10 times a day.
It wasn't until 2010 with my health deteriorating rapidly...uncontrollable high BP (even on 3 different meds at same time), prednisone induced diabetes ( readings of 300), prednisone dependent since my hospitalization in 08, high pancreatic and liver enzyme levels, etc....that I finally found a colorectal surgeon online because my GI doctor refused to refer one to me. By that time, I was so sick and also almost 64 yrs old, I was not a candidate for j-pouch. I didn't care, I just wanted my life back.
Like summerstorm said, having the "bag" is not bad at all. I am healthier than I have been in years! BUT....you don't want to wait like I did. Perhaps if I weren't so ill my surgeon would gladly have done j-pouch. He trained at the Cleveland Clinic and is head of colorectal surgery at Univ of Pa in Philly. By the time of my first visit to him he told me it was much too risky for me to have j-pouch. In his opinion, it would have been too stressful on my system. These days my BP is very well controlled with only 1 pill a day....the only pill I take daily....I no longer have diabetes. My liver and pancreatic enzyme levels are now normal, and I no longer have UP. However, I will forever have osteoporosis thanks to prednisone.
The very best of luck to you. God bless.