For many years I avoided talking about
my UC because most people did not want to hear my "tale of woe" and some thought I was exaggerating. It was also inconvenient for some that I had to be near a restroom when we went out.
I was always apologizing.
After finding this forum and communicating
openly about
very private issues, I now have no trouble explaining any limitations I may have. I have also adopted a different attitude.
If it isn't "convenient" for some so-called friends, too bad.
I now socialize with people who understand that I didn't choose to have this disease.
This forum is a Godsend for many.