beatUC said...
Not all true fruitgirl, I know for a fact home schooled children do better when they enter school systems and children that attend daycare don't do any better, it's been well documented.
And as I said in my original post, it's not always the case, but most parents who both work are chasing money at the expense of their kids.
I'm a big proponent of not having someone else raise your kids. Common sense has gone out the door it seems exchanged for the lure of greed.
Again I think you missed the part about the QUALITY of the place they go. If they just go to some in home daycare where they aren't stimulated and don't do anything then I can agree with you. However, there can be balance as well. My wife is a hospital nurse and I also work. My wife's work hours were such that my kids went to the hospitals onsite "School for children ages 3months to 5 years". They went there roughly 2.5 days per week because of the unique hours hhospital nurses work. All three of my kids are all in school now (ages 7, 10 and 12). All three are at the top of their class academically and every report card their teachers tell us in writing and verbally how well they do socially and how respectful they are of their teachers and others. My middle child was tested and alowed in early entry, she is now in 5th grade (age wise she shold be in 4th grade) and she is in 6th grade math and reading. I believe we as parents get some of the credit but I can tell you categorically that I do not believe for one second that my kids would be doing as well as they do in school had they not attended the "daycare" they attended. There were no TV's in the school, everyday was a new sensation or learning adventure, they had really quality TEACHERS for all the kids. They learned responsibility like cleanign up after themselves after every meal, learning their ABC's, learning sensation things, going to the nearby zoo frequently, doing all kinds of art activities, learnign daily about respecting their friends and their teachers. I beleive my wife and I to be good decent parents but we would not have been capable of teaching some the things they learned in that "daycare" even if one of us was a full tiem stay at home parent. Now my kids were also not in their 8 hours a day 5 days+ a week so maybe it was the balance of having it be just a few days a week there and a the rest with mom and dad so that is tough to say but I can say definitively my kids needed both and got a great deal out of both. As for you knowing for a 'fact' home schooled kids do better, I contest that big time. I'm not syaing some do or don't but to say all do is a complete misnomer. My father in law is a superintendent and my mother in law a grade school teacher and my sister inlaw a grade school teacher and becasue fo that I know several home schooled kids that have entered "real schools" and they do not do better by a logn shot. They are socially awkward, have no idea how to interact with people, don't understand the teaching methods of the traditional teachers and have seen several fail in many subjects. Again there are many hme schooled kids who do great academcally and I don't deny that but to say it's universal its ridiculous and worong aslo academics are not the ONLY areas of achievement remember and are not the only areas of "success" in life, though they are the ones most focused on (sometime incorrectly) when we discuss schools. As for saying families where both parents work do it just for greed and chasing money, that is beyond insulting and I won't addres sit further than that but the overwhelming majority fo this country has to work to feed itself. Some are selfish but to say a majority are is insulting to ahrdworking people barely making a living everywhere...
Post Edited (butte1) : 9/25/2012 10:22:18 AM (GMT-6)